Dame
Whether you’re new to the world of sex toys or simply bored with your current selection, we’re about to rock your bed (and body) with today’s Poosh-approved vibrators.
But first a few reasons (crowd-sourced anonymously from friends of Poosh) on what’s holding them back from exploring next-level pleasure with the help of intimate toys. “I’ve just never tried one, and every time I put one in my online shopping cart I never pull the trigger on purchasing,” “I’m not sexually active right now,” “I’m low-key nervous to bring it up to my partner,” “In my head, I just picture intense dildos and haven’t looked into other less intimidating options yet,” “I’m worried my roommate will hear me using it.” As you can see, the responses range but the curiosity is there across the board, and the common reason why they haven’t tried one yet comes down to not knowing or discovering the right toy.
We’re on a mission to change all newbies’ POV on vibrators by sharing five incredible (and Poosh-tested) toys to start the sexploration vibration station. And if you’re a seasoned vibe user, these are must-adds whether you’re using solo or coupled up.
Why Dame?
We’ve played with a fair share of toys for Poosh research, and Dame scores high on our list for a couple of reasons. First, it’s female-founded by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman. Women designing devices for women’s needs. Big fans. As a leading sexual wellness brand, Dame’s mission is to “make products and resources for people with vulvas to help close the pleasure gap.” Through their sleek and chic toys, they are promoting shame-free pleasure and have touched 10 million lives and counting. The packaging and design are another reason we’re fans of Dame. Each box comes with a manual that has easy-to-follow instructions and illustrations on how to use the toy. And the texture of each vibrator … so soft. Plus, all products are made with doctor-approved and 100% body-safe materials. The tempo and speed are adjustable on all toys so you can find a rhythm that works for your body and sexual needs. Compared with other vibrators, they are wildly quieter with only a subtle zzz noise once you’re in action. Plus, Poosh readers get 15% off with code Poosh15 now through the end of the year (2021).
OK, now let’s get into the good stuff.
If you’re looking to intensify penetrative sex …
Get Eva. It’s Dame’s very first vibrator and a best-seller (for good reason). A note from our editor: “It took switching positions a couple of times to really get in the groove (since it was my first time using), but it was so worth it. It was actually a fun and sexy activity to figure it out together and then finding the right position and orgasming within minutes was of course the cherry on the cake. Since it’s meant to be used hand-free, the best position is riding on top. Place the wings between each lip, find the vibration pattern you like the most, and then have a ride of your life.”
If you’re looking for oral-like pleasure without even going down …
Get Aer. The suction design feels similar to a mouth but with the addition of a vibration sensation pulsing around your clit. It’s great for solo play for obvious reasons but makes for hot foreplay with a partner too. Let your partner watch you use it on yourself before you let him slide inside you (if you’re comfortable with this of course). So hot, he’ll go wild and have that visual stuck in his mind.
If you love getting fingered …
Get Fin. It’s so cute and tiny! Small, but it’s mighty. This innovative toy comes with a removable band that you can keep on for more secure movement or detach for a more freestyle pattern. It’s simple to use though since it’s so petite it’s supposed to feel like part of your or your partner’s hand. Play with it during foreplay and then whip it back out during sex for added pleasure.
If you need help finding your G-spot …
Get Arc. You can totally use this with a partner as well, but it’s best used for self-exploration. Even if you think you know where your spot is … just wait until you rediscover it with this toy. Ohh! If you have neighbors or a roommate, we highly suggest playing music or having the TV on in the background because you’ll most likely get loud (in the best way). The squishy bulb allows for easy insertion, and, well, the rest … that’s for you to dive in as deep as you’d like while you move the device in and out, up and down, and all around until you hit it.
If you’re looking for a fuss-free toy to masturbate with …
Get Pom. While yes, you can masturbate with all the toys we’ve mentioned so far, this one is for those nights when you don’t need all the bells and whistles and simply want to get off. It’s compact, flexible, and gets the job done. You can have your partner use it on you too during foreplay, but we have a feeling this is going to become your new fuss-free and trusted “me” time vibrator.
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