How to Set the Mood for a Date Night with Yourself

Tell me you need a “me” night without telling me you need a “me” night.

That’s how it works, right? Well, no plans, no problem. Enjoy the alone time by pampering yourself with our updated “me” night essentials. We’re sharing sexy self-care rituals you can do all in one evening. Relax, reset, and remember these rituals for your next solo date night.

For ambiance

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Wander – Grey

Price: $38

Dehv Candle Co.

Set the mood with a candle, obvi. We sent Wander in our recent at-home spa mailer, but there are also seven other scents to choose from in our store. We’re already relaxed just thinking about it. Once you’re done with the sustainably created candle, you can repurpose the pretty jar and use it as decoration or to store things in your bathroom.

Pre-bath (or shower)

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Brush & Detox Bundle

Price: $38

Daily Concepts

Use before your bath and massage your skin in circular motions. The natural bristles remove dead cells and help to tone skin. Body dry brushing is a Poosh favorite on our self-care ritual list.

During soak (or rinse)

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Elixa Bath and Body Serum

Price: $28

The Established

Use this plant-based serum to moisturize your skin while you’re in the bath. You can also use it post-bath if you prefer.

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Sisal Brush & Back Scrubber Bundle

Price: $34

Daily Concepts

While your body is absorbing the serum, scrub your back with this exfoliating tool. The handles make it easy to use while you stroke back and forth.

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Polished Exfoliating Mittens

Price: $35

Zena Foster Beauty

If you skipped the dry brushing step (or simply prefer to exfoliate during your shower), use these mitts to gently slough off dead skin.

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Fragrance Free Essential Bundle

Price: $50

Seen

Cleanse your hair with this fragrance-free shampoo and conditioner combo.

Post-shower/bath

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Saydee Slipper in Natural Plush

Price: $60

Dolce Vita

Dry off and slip into these cozy slippers.

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Original Whipped Body Butter

Price: $29

Jentl

Hydrate your polished skin with this crazy soft body butter. Kourt likes to use this one at night because it has an oily consistency (and smells like chocolate).

Skincare

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Ritual Set to Blend

Price: $58

Eluo

Mix your favorite powered mask using this convenient bowl and brush. Kourt likes to add a drizzle of this honey into her concoction. Remember to pull your hair back and protect your strands with a soft glam band.

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LED Light Shield Mask

Price: $190

DMH Aesthetics

As your mask sets, multitask by wearing this light shield. Pick the setting depending on your skin’s needs. Here’s a refresher:
1. Red: inflammation/redness
2. Blue: acne/breakouts
3. Amber: age spots/melasma

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Stainless Steel Gua Sha

Price: $35

Sacheu

Once you rinse your mask, apply your evening face serum and end your skincare ritual by sculpting your face with this stainless steel gua sha tool. Since steel is nonporous, it’s ideal for acne-prone skin as it won’t trap and spread bacteria while you’re enjoying the at-home face treatment.

Bedtime

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Sona 2 Cruise Sonic Clitoral Massager

Price: $139

Lelo

Turn up the vibes with a little self-pleasure. If you want to break the “me” night theme and dial in a partner for a steamy FaceTime, we totally support that too.

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Classic Over the Head Pillow

Price: $168

Sleep Crown

End your relaxing evening of self-care by cuddling with this fluffy pillow. It’s meant to be worn over your head, but we like to snuggle with it too since it feels like a lightly weighted hug.